As the name, Couples at Crossroads, implies, we are always at a choice point.  Each moment brings with it an opportunity for growth--an opportunity to experience life more deeply and more fully. 

Most of time the choice is to recognize the value of a relationship and determine to put new energy into it. 

Sometimes, the choice is to recognize that a relationship is reaching its conclusion and steps need to be taken to allow forward movement without it. 

These choices are usually very subtle.   We don’t even notice we’re making them. 

Occasionally the choice comes vividly and demands action. 

​Whatever the case, being aware that choices are made all the time offers the opportunity to actually participate in a relationship and not just stand back and watch it happen.

If you are ready to make some new choices, here are the ways you can get from where you are to where you want to be.

The Enneagram is one of the deepest, most insightful systems ever developed for looking at your personality and your relationships.  It's the product of centuries of study into what motivates humans at the core. 

After identifying your personality type and that of your partner, you will have a map that describes the most important aspects of your inner life and your life together. 

​With this map you can navigate routes of growth as well as conflict resolution.